while surfing on internet i got a post submitted by any regular user of site it looks quite kewl so i want to share with you all..:)

We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules
from the male side. These are our rules! Please note … these are
all numbered ’1′ ON PURPOSE!

1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of
it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints
do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. Yes, and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it.
That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.
1. If you won’t dress like the Victoria’s Secret girls, don’t expect
us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you’re fat, you probably are. Don’t ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the
ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it
done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say
during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach,
for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have
no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act
like nothing’s wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth
the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, expect an
answer you don’t want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine.
Really.
1. Don’t ask us what we’re thinking about unless you are prepared
to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation, or monster
trucks.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round is a shape.
1. Thank you for reading this; Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the
couch tonight, but did you know men really don’t mind that, it’s like
camping.

it totally a copy paste material

Yes this is TIGER..FEAR WITH BEAUTY….

well for me it is the most beautiful animal of wild life territory.specially THE BANGAL TIGERS the sign of INDIAN WEALTH AND ROYALTY..:).but this beauty is in danger a GREAT danger.it is the most critically endangered animal .Conservationists say there are just 3,200 tigers left in the world.IN the whole world..so what ,we will going to say our next generation that there happens to be an animal CALLED TIGER.think about it…

What does the first thing come to your mind when you say the word hero?…
Do heroes still exist?…
Whom do you call a hero?…
The people who come after you call at 100 are they heroes?…
Or are they people like Mother Teresa heroes?…
Do heroes still exist?…
Is hero a person whom we idolize?…
Are heroes people like Phantom or Superman or Batman?…
Or are they normal people who has done something good for someone?…
Is Gandhi ji a hero?…
For some people Michael Jackson was a hero why?…
Or Aamir Khan is a hero ,which is working like a sociel worker through their movies???

People say heroes should be famous… Is it true?…
Are heroes people who have saved someone’s life?…
Heroes are worshiped why?…
Is a scientist a hero?…
Is someone who has died for another person a hero?…

Is your friend, who shows they way of life and u remember him for your whole life??

Or Shahrukh khan,Hritik  is a hero ,who is loved by a lot of girls??

Window Photo gallery,Window movie maker in a new style,and WINDOWS LIVE WRITER,,ya this is the one of my interest and i think for all blogers,.:there is the one it looks like….

it simply download ur blog theme…first u hv to register ur blog there….wid ur account name and password…and to install it and then start writing in it..there is no need of internet while writing on ur blog….

It has many plug in like insert

1. Hyperlink
2. picture
3. photo album
4. table
5. map
6. tag
7. video
8. yahoo smiley’s

so formatting and blogging becomes more fun wid windows live writer..and i m now loving it…

So if u wanna use it get complete package from this link

GET ur windows free software

              ENJOY!!!!!

this is the wording of an father….expecting too much from their son,,,how many times these lines are said by ur father,,,or by u to ur childrens….

Every child is unique with his own special abilities. He may be wonderful in some areas, good or merely average in others and may not do well in certain fields at all. i saw many of my friends just awesome in sports,or business but they r doing engineering which is not fr them,,,
some times it is got over expectation to some one who can not hold the weights,don’t blindly urge your child to excel in everything. it is just not possible for any one to do this. Set reasonable targets according to this age and ability.

It is result time and i saw many of u criticizing their children because he is not manage to get good rank in IIT,CPMT,… and many of not able to get good percentage..ya this is actually happen when u want an tortoise to run like a horse ,, u hv to face failure in life….Have realistic expectations from your child. They should not be too low as it may make the child believe that this all he is capable of. They should be high enough to stimulate his efforts and yet be within reach of his capability.

now a days ur children performance is become the matter of ur status,,“sonu is getting a lot better marks then u , how can i make my face up in front mr.Mehra..when i see him with his son”
ya this is the attitude of today’s parents. Comparison between too individuals can’t be made may be he is a good scholar, another one good in ART’s .and the other guy likes to play football over night,, so see what u got in ur child.They r not the RACING HORSE to hv a race with ur neighbors and freinds.
If u think y i m writing this one… I hv two brothers one is elder to me and another i younger,,,my younger brother hv to face this every time i think because what he have to do is to be better than me.and his some friends are awesome in studies,and he is not able to handle this expectations many times, here i m the one to handle his failure , to support him, but i hv seen it many times ,sometimes it creats negative effect,, “children starts hating himself,it starts hating everything around himself” and what u finally got a ‘son without soul’ which have no desire no smile on his face,…OH U KILLED UR SON ……….finally
.

Don’t coldly criticize your child if he fails to come up to your expectations. Check to see whether it is you who are over-expecting or the child who is under performing. If it is the former, then your criticism is unjust. It will sap your child’s confidence and make him feel inadequate. If the problem is with the child, then find the reasons and help him strengthen the areas where he needs improvement.

finally one thing to say:-

Parents have the tremendous power to effect their child’s mind, emotions and attitude. their opinion of their child has the greatest effect on what the child thinks and feels about himself. It is their responsibility, indeed their duty to make the child feel comfortable about what he is, confident about what he can do and positive about what he has achieved.

Women’s Reservation, though well-intended, Is it likely to work

Reservation after reservation,,,,,,-:x.Indian politician faund an easiest way to win the vote bank..Reservation on the basis of Cast,domicile,gender,and religion is introuced just after the independence.at the area of education,and public sector.
In # 1979-Mandal Commission was established to assess the situation of the socially and educationally backward.The commission didn’t have exact figures for a sub-caste, known as the Other Backward Class(OBC), and used the 1930 census data, further classifying 1,257 communities as backward, to estimate the OBC population at 52%.but in 1980-the commission submitted a report, and recommended changes to the existing quotas, increasing them from 22% to 49.5%.As of 2006 number of castes in Backward class list went up to 2297 which is the increase of 60% from community list prepared by Mandal commission.
so total quota on Caste base system is increased to 49.5%.taking OBC,SC,ST as minorities,Contradiction-y they r minor if they r getting just half quota at any educational place,,after 49.5% there is another quota belongs to the religion .In India hindus are in majority. so Muslims,jain ,criest,and people of other religions get reservation at these areas…but if we calculate total no of person belongs to these religion is about 45% of the total population……so how can they be in minorities.
and the third one is for women.,they gets a quota in these areas exactly no counter-view fr it …..if there is no quota fr girls in clgs what will we do without them in class.-:P
Ok jokes are apart…don’t u think that these type of reservation are creating handicapped peoples…almost the gainer of these policies are the creamy lair of that community.who generally don’t need it..

These are the some arguments which opposes reservation policies::::::

Allocating quotas is a form of discrimination which is contrary to the right to equality.

The policy of reservation has never been subject to a widespread social or political audit. Before extending the reservation government should analyze the outcome of the reservation in 60 years…and we should analyze the population which actually deserve it….

There is fear that reservation once introduced will never be withdrawn even if there is a proof for upliftment of Backward classes, due to political issues. For example, in Tamil Nadu, forward castes were able to secure only 3% of total seats (and 9% in Open Competition) in professional institutions at Undergraduate level as against their population percentage of 13%.. This is a clear case of reverse discrimination.what was that u can say frwd caste is getting only 3% reservation

ok these is a never ending issue should be end…come to the point of WOMEN’s reservation in politics..so new Idea fr vote bank policies…according to this there are 33% reservation fr women in politics..(there are 33% seats are reserved fr women) means for 33 seat in democracy u must select a woman…government has point of view that it is for the enhancement of status of women in India.
it’s looking quite funny when the President ,an unofficial Prime minister. lok sabha speaker is women then u suddenly need a reservation fr the women to enhance their status.i think men’s status are down and they need it.
i think today Indian women are taking too much participation that they don’t need any reservation for that . it’s counter view is it can proove negative fr them..u can easily see that when a seat is reserved fr any woman ..then bahubali can pressure their wife to nominate their self..and they can’t take any decision frm theirself…so in the end it’s all come to the man who rules it……..as u know in Ravri devi government their is only a one rule of lallu…..laluu rules in bihar….as fr the statement of him

“i m the only men who is served by the chief minister of his state”

i don’t know what time is needed to enhance the status of any group of people until u measure it relatively..u r not measuring the outcome of ur previous effort …and just passing new bills..:X

I think that women of our country should oppose that kind of reservation which take them one step back to what they actually are..:)

RACISM means

# any program or practice of racial discrimination, segregation, etc., specif., such a program or practice that upholds the political or economic domination of one race over another or others

feelings or actions of hatred and bigotry toward a person or persons because of their race

ya there too many peoples in India saying that we the Indians are facing too munch racism and discrimination in foreign countries…and the foreigners have too much racism behavior .But Racism exists everywhere and we don’t have to go looking for it in foreign countries.how many people here in India can honestly claim that they have never been racists themselves? . The most common insulting term used by North Indians for South Indians is ‘Darkie’ .where as south Indians consider all the north Indians as criminals,idiots and too much..In south India there are too many attempts are taking place to push back all the students and workers of north India .

yes there are racism all over the world ,specially the Indian student and employees at foreign countries are facing it too many times there are too many incident happens to Indians and any other Asians. there are prohibited to go too many places in U.S. An experience of a person is as follows :

“in my flight from Santiago to Chicago in American airlines they are giving pillows and they announced that there are pillows only after we sat in our seats my wife had a bad headache so i asked the hostesses to get me a pillow firstly her attitude was very bad then she immediately said there are no pillows, i kept quite then a white women asked her for a pillow she smiled at her and she was very nice with her and brought her a pillow and her attitude remained that way for the entire flight”,

This was not common but it is becoming increasingly common because of obama’s highlighting point about Indians and our slum and Pakistani terrorism who look like us ,together making people of other nations looking at us as if we are taking their jobs ,mocking them in call centers, and filthy people who are killing others.

in spite of other countries ,there is racism in one state..i don’t know about the other ones but In U.P yes it is divided in three parts.East ,west, middle.
They r different in their way of speaking.and to some extent in their way of living..Do u believe that in my clg groups are divided on the basis of AREA.yup, two main groups are EAST UP and WEST UP.

Let me share one of my experience with a teacher..after submitting my exam copy .

teacher:-from which place both of u are ?
me:-sir Lucknow..
one friend:-sir Banaras..
teacher:- is any one here from U.P ??
me:- what??…..sir i m from lucknow..
teacher:- my means. any one from west U.P..
me:(in angry mood) better to ask..is anyone here from dehli or hariyana..

so this man who is a teacher not considering the citizen of Lucknow(the capitol of U.P).as a citizen of U.P.what else i can say, Racism and discrimination is curse man are facing since the birth of human kind.the bases are different according to time and place.some times it is CAST system, birthplace,sometimes it is on the base of ur economic strength..but how can u divide one man from other or hate any person without any reason just because he is not from ur cast, or ur country or don’t hv the money as much u hv. Expecting this curse to human kind may hv any END….

“Racism is man’s gratest threat to man – the maximum of hatred for a minimum of reason.”
Abraham J. Heschel
“The biggest problem though out the history of man is the fact that racism is anything but an anomoly.”
Erik Hansen

]]> http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/06/05/racism-and-discrimination/feed/ 2 vibhuti007 racism http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/05/03/3-may-to-3-may/ http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/05/03/3-may-to-3-may/#comments Sun, 03 May 2009 09:40:11 +0000 vibhuti007 http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/?p=131 Continue reading →]]> ya 3 may my birth date.2nd time i am away from my home assuming the presence of,my mother ,my grandma,sister,,may they will be here giving me there blessing,expecting the gulgullas of my mom,clothes from papa,one gilas of kesari milk from my grand ma.
every year before my clg these thing happened ever year……….some time a party was also scheduled by my school frnds but as we all life will change as u grow and as u step forward in this competitive world
3 may 2008
ok i now i tell u something about my last birthday .11:30 i got a message from my one friend wishing me happy birthday and allerting me about next 1 hour ,what i m going to get..ya a lot of bumps,
11:45- stdnts from other hostel gathered near my room,
11:55-its time fr ths stdnt frm my hostel they gathered in front of my room
Oh it 12:00 night uf i was covered with almost 80 90 student ,bumps start,uff….
but tht continues assault was making more than happy….
viewing myself in the heart of my frnds ,
“sometimes u think u will be here ,sometimes u think u will be there “
that time i preferred hostel ,first time something different some thing awesome ,something surprising.
ya surprising,my friends arrange birthday cake and many thing ..we celebrate it the whole night,
and next i was not able stand on foot bcoz of pain in my back….
here in hostel i hv chosen my friends as my family

3 may 2009
11:30-no body is there ,all are busy in preparing fr the examination
11:50-some guys of IT branch standing in front of my room giving me indication ,what they hav planed
12:00-oh shit it’s 12 they pull up me in air and start with their hand clothes ,give me some bumps on my back.
12:05-it’s over
it’s time to receive phone calls from the frnds who is not from the hostel..then as previous i cut hte cake.and we celebrate the party..almost every IT student who is living in hostel wished me..but i m still waiting fr some of my frnds who r closer to me when i m in 1 year in C hostel…

ya thts the basic difference in first year and 2 year.in first year i hv everyone in C hostel to talk with me ,to celebrate with me ,to hav fun with me,but in second students hv created their groups they do everything in their group only,they are friends only on one condition if ur their when they r fighting with other student of the same batch..u hv to be their giving them support in violence. u know tht person from three years .doesn’t matter if ur my friend u hv to with me …:X
but everything i cn do for me friends is simply to be their friend.

next year i will not be in hostel bcoz i m taking a separate room . see wht will happen next time

True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable. ~Dave Tyson Gentry

Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends. ~Virginia Woolf

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares. ~Henri Nouwen

]]> http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/05/03/3-may-to-3-may/feed/ 6 vibhuti007 cenas0685 http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/old-frnds/ http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/old-frnds/#comments Wed, 01 Apr 2009 17:48:22 +0000 vibhuti007 http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/old-frnds/ Continue reading →]]> some times……….some things happened which just touch to ur heart.today i met a frnd of mine of coaching days……..he is one of my bst frnd of tht time………..oh i can’t explain myself wht i m at tht time…..
seriously the time true friends spent wid each other will last forever
“FRIENDS ARE THE BEAUTIFUL HAND AND FRIENDSHIP IS THE THREAD THT KEEPS THEM INTACT “

]]> http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/old-frnds/feed/ 1 vibhuti007 http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/03/14/u-hv-windowsvistawhat-it-is-a-virus/ http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/2009/03/14/u-hv-windowsvistawhat-it-is-a-virus/#comments Sat, 14 Mar 2009 16:49:59 +0000 vibhuti007 http://vibhuti007.wordpress.com/?p=73 Continue reading →]]> this post is inspired by my friend ……ya harsh……he had written about many problems which usually occurs with VISTA in his blog….http://magicalharsh.wordpress.com in the post
Desktop v\s laptop……
ya finally i found visa as an virus bcoz of the recent problems being encountered by VISTA users all across the country.
IS VISTA IS AN VIRUS ??
In response to the high demand for an answer to that question a study was done and concluded the following.

1. Viruses replicate quickly.
VISTA does this.

2. Viruses use up valuable system resources, slowing down the system as they do so.
VISTA does this.

3. Viruses will, from time to time, trash your hard disk.
VISTA does this.

4. Viruses are usually carried, unknown to the user, along with valuable programs and systems.
VISTA does that too.

5. Viruses will occasionally make the user suspect their system is too slow (see 2) and the user will buy new hardware.
Same with VISTA, yet again.

Maybe Windows VISTA really is a virus.

Nope! There is a difference!

Viruses are well supported by their authors, are frequently updated, and tend to become more sophisticated as they mature. So there! VISTA is not a virus..-:D

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